{"id":3157,"date":"2016-12-14T03:25:13","date_gmt":"2016-12-14T09:25:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tampaseo.expert\/focus\/?p=3157"},"modified":"2016-12-14T03:25:13","modified_gmt":"2016-12-14T09:25:13","slug":"teach-your-children-to-be-givers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tampaseo.expert\/focus\/2016\/12\/14\/teach-your-children-to-be-givers\/","title":{"rendered":"Teach Your Children To Be Givers"},"content":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s no secret that we live in a materialistic society. The mainstream media constantly bombards us with advertisements of products that we \u201cneed.\u201d My generation has perfected the art of \u201ckeeping up with the Joneses.\u201d In fact, most individuals my age wanted to start their marriages with the same material possessions that it took our parents thirty years to amass. And so, we purchased it all\u2014on credit.
\nWe are a generation of consumers and takers. Sadly, this selfishness is now being passed on to future generations, as children want more and more. Holidays such as Christmas are no longer about family and memories, but rather they revolve around commercialism and \u201cthings.\u201d
\nHere\u2019s what I intend on teaching my children about giving versus taking.<\/strong>
\nEvery Christmas morning since you were born your mother and I have set up a video camera to record the events of the morning. It\u2019s one of the ways we have recorded you growing up through the years, as you went from crawling over presents and playing with empty boxes, to running into the room trying to guess exactly what was in each box. One of our joys as parents has been watching you tear open the wrapping paper and seeing your eyes light up as you see what was contained in each package.
\nHaving been reared in the United States, you are extremely blessed. You have never experienced poverty or not had something you need. In fact, most of the time you get things you want. But your mother and I worry about what we are teaching you regarding giving versus taking. One of my greatest hopes is that during your lifetime you will learn the joy of giving. Undoubtedly, you will grow up around individuals who surround themselves with \u201cthings.\u201d But remember, things won\u2019t buy happiness. Remember that those \u201cthings\u201d can never fill the void in your life as He can. And never forget ultimately Who owns everything.
\nThere are literally thousands of individuals who have abandoned the Faith in favor of material possessions. These people are selfish takers. They never learned the art of giving. In the book of Acts, Paul reminded the people of the words Jesus Christ who said \u201cIt is more blessed to give than to receive\u201d (Acts 20:35). Never forget this admonition from the Son of God. I pray that as you grow older you will constantly be on the lookout for ways to give to others. The feeling you get inside is like none other. Practice random acts of kindness. Never forget\u2014people are much more valuable than things.
\nWhen your mom and I were in Russia, we had the opportunity to visit the \u201cflat\u201d (apartment) of one of the local Christians. They lived a beautiful life, but it was obvious they did not own nearly the material possessions we did. They worked hard just to get by. During our visit, we complimented a picture she had hanging on the wall, and she literally went over and took it off the wall and gave it to us. We tried desperately to tell her no, but she insisted. In the years since, I have forgotten her name but we still have the picture. Her act of kindness has remained in my memory for years. She truly was a giver.
\nAs you mature, you will meet people who place an inordinate amount of attention on material possessions. Their identity is shaped not by who they really are, but rather by what they own. Many people spend years climbing the corporate ladder so that they can buy more \u201cthings.\u201d These individuals remind us of the Rich Young Ruler who asked Jesus what he needed to do to have eternal life. \u201cJesus said to him, \u2018If you want to be perfect, go sell what you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; and come and follow me\u2019\u201d (Matthew 19:21). Rather than him ruling his possessions, his possessions ruled him. The Bible tells us he went away sorrowful because he had many possessions.
\nBe thankful for what God has blessed you with, but never let your material possessions separate you from Jehovah God. Look for ways to share your possessions. Be a giver, not a taker!
\nBy Brad Harrub, Ph.D.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s no secret that we live in a materialistic society. 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