{"id":19176,"date":"2019-12-10T11:36:00","date_gmt":"2019-12-10T17:36:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tampaseo.expert\/focus\/?p=19176"},"modified":"2019-12-10T11:36:00","modified_gmt":"2019-12-10T17:36:00","slug":"are-you-just-standing-around-holding-coats","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tampaseo.expert\/focus\/2019\/12\/10\/are-you-just-standing-around-holding-coats\/","title":{"rendered":"Are You Just Standing Around Holding Coats?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

We have grossly distorted the meaning of love. Our modern day expression of \u201cshowing someone love\u201d means there should never<\/strong> be any reproof, rebuking, or criticism. If someone preaches a \u201cstrong\u201d lesson, elders and members often take offense and ask the preacher to stick to messages of \u201clove.\u201d If the preacher points out that his sermon was biblical, then those criticizing him fall back on the tried and true, \u201cyes, but it wasn\u2019t taught in love. You are supposed to teach the Truth in love.\u201d And therefore, the entire message is invalidated, because after all it wasn\u2019t taught \u201cin love.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n

The social media world is even worse. If someone dares point out bad behavior or sin online then they are immediately inundated with waves of critical comments and they are characterized as the bad guy. Those who are outside the church often join in pointing out that the person is judging and the one verse they are aware of is that people should not judge! If we were living during the time of Moses our generation would add an 11th<\/sup> command: Thou must be nice! And while that sounds good and maybe even feels good to our emotions, we have elevated that command ahead of everything else. \u201cThou must be nice\u201d trumps everything else.<\/p>\n\n\n

Have we totally forgotten that souls are stake? Heaven and hell hang in the balance, and we are all bickering on whether the message was \u201cnice enough.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n

Question:<\/p>\n\n\n

If you see someone running towards the edge of the cliff what is the loving thing to do?<\/p>\n\n\n

*Speak quietly because you don\u2019t want to offend them?<\/p>\n\n\n

*Offer them words of encouragement so you don\u2019t hurt their self-esteem?<\/p>\n\n\n

*Watch quietly because after all you don\u2019t want to judge them.<\/p>\n\n\n

*Stand by and \u201clove\u201d them (aka be nice), and hope they turn away at the last second?<\/p>\n\n\n

While you may think the above responses are silly or ridiculous we have thousands of Christians that respond to sin in that exact same manner. The truth is we dislike confrontation so much that we would rather watch the person go over the edge of the cliff and say how tragic his fall was, rather than get our hands dirty and try to stop the fall. Don\u2019t believe me? When is the last time you confronted someone about sin in his or her life or for an inappropriate social media post? When is the last time you watched elders get in a pulpit and rebuke members for sin? When is the last time your congregation practiced church discipline? While I know it does occasionally occur, the truth is, confrontation has become extremely rare these days.<\/p>\n\n\n

Yes, 1 Corinthians 13 shows us the importance of speaking the truth in love (see also Ephesians 4:15). But that should also show us that speaking the truth and loving someone can still go hand in hand! People today equate speaking the truth with being unloving. Paul did not see them as mutually exclusive. Sometimes love means we say the hard things. Sadly, Christians do not do this much today.<\/p>\n\n\n

Instead, we hide under the veil that we \u201clove\u201d the person\u2014meaning we never make them upset. We cling tightly to the 11th<\/sup> command of being nice, and hope that our kind behavior will change or alter the sin in their life. [Side note\u2014this is one of the downfalls of friendship evangelism. At some point if you are going to convert a lost person you MUST point out sin and its consequences. It is godly sorrow that brings about true repentance (2 Corinthians 7:10). Friendship evangelism rarely points out sin.] We are, like Paul, standing around holding coats at the stoning of Stephen. We are just bystanders watching all the drama unfold around us. All the while, we try and assume the moral high ground, because our silence is presumed to be the most loving act.<\/p>\n\n\n

It has been said that, \u201csilence is golden.\u201d But that is not the case for Christians. When are we going to discuss the sin of remaining silent? There is a saying that \u201csilence gives consent.\u201d That\u2019s exactly what the Bible says Paul was doing at the stoning of Stephen. According to Acts 8:1 Paul\u2019s silence was consenting to the death of Stephen. Some might say he was just holding coats, but his silence meant he was giving consent.<\/p>\n\n\n

Listen soberly to the words of Ezekiel 3:18-19, \u201cWhen I say to the wicked, \u2018You shall surely die,\u2019 and you give him no warning, nor speak to warn the wicked from his wicked way, to save his life, that same wicked man <\/em>shall die in his iniquity; but his blood I will require at your hand. Yet, if you warn the wicked, and he does not turn from his wickedness, nor from his wicked way, he shall die in his iniquity; but you have delivered your soul.\u201d The prophet Isaiah would not be well received in our modern culture. He would probably be unfriended or blocked by many on social media. Isaiah (like many of the prophets) had to say hard things. We read,<\/p>\n\n\n

\u201cCry aloud, spare not; Lift up your voice like a trumpet;
\nTell My people their transgression, and the house of Jacob their sins\u201d (Isaiah 58:1).<\/p>\n\n\n

We live in an age where any negative words cause outrage\u2014even if those negative words are the truth. Let me ask: Is your doctor unkind, unloving, and judging you just because he delivers the news that you have cancer? Would you prefer he not tell you the truth and just \u201cbe kind.\u201d Would he be more loving to keep your cancer quiet? <\/p>\n\n\n

Yes, there are times when gentle correction is adequate and works (Galatians 6:1; 2 Timothy 2:22ff). For instance, we see this with Jesus and the woman at the well (John 4). At other times Jesus instructed others to rebuke those who had sinned (Matthew 18:15ff; Luke 17:3-4). Notice, when hearts were hard, Jesus intensified his language, scolding those in sin (Matthew 23; see also 1 Corinthians 5; Acts 2:36-37). A Christian who truly \u201cloves\u201d someone will assess the condition of the heart, respond accordingly, and confront the sin. But notice this\u2014Jesus never just stood idly by and allowed sin to continue or gave his approval through silence.<\/p>\n\n\n

We see it all throughout Scripture\u2014people standing idly by while sin takes place. For instance, all the way back in the Garden of Eden we learn that Adam was with his wife when she ate of the tree of knowledge of good and evil (Genesis 3:6). Did he speak up? No, he allowed his wife to run off the cliff and then followed after her. What about Aaron when he saw Moses disobeying God and striking the rock twice (Numbers 20:11). No, he allowed Moses to run off the cliff and then was scolded by God, along with Moses, in the very next verse!<\/p>\n\n\n

Please read\u2014without forming an emotional defense\u2014Paul\u2019s words to the Christians at Corinth<\/p>\n\n\n

It is actually reported that there is<\/em> sexual immorality among you, and such sexual immorality as is not even named among the Gentiles\u2014that a man has his father\u2019s wife! And you are puffed up, and have not rather mourned, that he who has done this deed might be taken away from among you.  For I indeed, as absent in body but present in spirit, have already judged (as though I were present) him who has so done this deed. In the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, when you are gathered together, along with my spirit, with the power of our Lord Jesus Christ, deliver such a one to Satan for the destruction of the flesh, that his spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus.<\/p>\n\n\n

Your glorying is<\/em> not good. Do you not know that a little leaven leavens the whole lump?  Therefore purge out the old leaven, that you may be a new lump, since you truly are unleavened. For indeed Christ, our Passover, was sacrificed for us. Therefore let us keep the feast, not with old leaven, nor with the leaven of malice and wickedness, but with the unleavened bread<\/em> of sincerity and truth (1 Corinthians 5:1-8).<\/p>\n\n\n

Paul assessed their hearts and then scolded Christians at Corinth. He rebuked them. He told them to get rid of the sinner\u2014kick him out. He used strong words. Now, notice how he followed this up in his second letter to them: <\/p>\n\n\n

For even if I made you sorry with my letter, I do not regret it; though I did regret it. For I perceive that the same epistle made you sorry, though only for a while. Now I rejoice, not that you were made sorry, but that your sorrow led to repentance. For you were made sorry in a godly manner, that you might suffer loss from us in nothing.  For godly sorrow produces repentance leading<\/em> to salvation, not to be regretted; but the sorrow of the world produces death (2 Corinthians 7:8-10).<\/p>\n\n\n

Paul loved these people enough to say the hard things and those hard words lead to godly sorrow! \u201cBrethren, if a man is overtaken in any trespass, you who are<\/em> spiritual restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness, considering yourself lest you also be tempted.\u201d Galatians 6:1<\/p>\n\n\n

Why do we call someone out?<\/p>\n\n\n

  1. We want them to go to heaven.<\/li>
  2. We want God to be glorified.<\/li>
  3. We want to obey His commands<\/li>
  4. Because we love people.<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n

    Church, it is time we go back and study what it means to love! It is time we discover that love and reproof are not mutually exclusive. If a child is about to stick their fingers in an electrical socket we don\u2019t just sit idly by and remain quiet because we don\u2019t want to offend them. We don\u2019t offer them words of encouragement to protect their self-esteem. No, we quickly (and often loudly) tell them not to stick their fingers in that or else they will get hurt. If they continue to reach for the electrical outlet we might even pop their hand. We understand this as parents\u2014but for some reason, we lose reason and understanding when it comes to spiritual danger and dealing with our brothers and sisters in Christ. <\/p>\n\n\n

    Rather than getting all caught up in emotion (which tends to be our normal response these days), how about we allow God\u2019s Word to speak. What does it mean to be loving? According to 1 John 4:8, \u201cWhoever does not love does not know God, because God is love<\/strong>.\u201d So rather using the word love as our culture does, Christians need to remember that God is love. In that same book, John wrote, \u201cFor this is the love of God, that we keep His commandments. And His commandments are not burdensome\u201d (1 John 5:3). In John 14:15 we read, \u201cIf ye love me keep my commandments.\u201d Paul further defines love in Romans 13:10, by saying \u201cLove does no harm to a neighbor, therefore love is the fulfillment of the law.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n

    To \u201clove\u201d is to do what God says to do in the way He says to do it. In other words, to be loving is to be lawful and to obey God\u2019s commands. So according to Scripture love and reproof are not mutually exclusive. Love should compel Christians to take a risk in their relationships and say something if it will save another\u2019s soul!<\/p>\n\n\n

    In his letter to the Christians in Ephesus Paul wrote, \u201cFor you were once darkness, but now you are<\/em> light in the Lord. Walk as children of light (for the fruit of theSpirit is<\/em> in all goodness, righteousness, and truth), finding out what is acceptable to the Lord. And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but ratherexpose them.<\/em>For it is shameful even to speak of those things which are done by them in secret\u201d (Ephesians 5:8-11). Notice this, Paul says it is not enough to simply abstain from \u201cthe unfruitful works of darkness\u201d. He says we must also expose them. John MacArthur wrote, \u201cTo ignore evil is to encourage it, and to keep quiet about it is to help promote it. The verb translated as \u201cexpose\u201d (from elegch\u014d<\/em>) can also carry the idea of reproof, correction, punishment, or discipline. We are to confront sin with intolerance\u201d (https:\/\/www.gty.org\/library\/blog\/B140220\/when-silence-is-sinful).  <\/p>\n\n\n

    Love that does not openly expose the unfruitful works of darkness and oppose sin is not biblical love. <\/p>\n\n\n

    Anyone claiming to be a Christian recognizes that Jesus loved everyone. He was the master teacher. And yet, have we overlooked Matthew 23? Jesus is literally ripping the Pharisees up one side and down the other the entire chapter. Listen to a few of His words:<\/p>\n\n\n

    \u201cWoe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n

    \u201cWoe to you, blind guides,\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n

    \u201cSerpents, brood of vipers!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n

    \u201cBlind guides, who strain out a gnat and swallow a camel!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n

    \u201cWoe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you are like whitewashed tombs which indeed appear beautiful outwardly, but inside are full of dead men\u2019s <\/em>bones and all uncleanness.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n

    \u201cHow can you escape the condemnation of hell?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n

    If Jesus had posted words like these on Facebook there would have been a massive pile on of negative comments\u2014even by Christians.<\/p>\n\n\n

    \u201cHow dare He say something like that about those people.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n

    \u201cHow dare He call them out for sin.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n

    \u201cHow dare He not love them.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n

    \u201cHe claims to love God but He judges people.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n

    Jesus was the embodiment of love. And yet, He still called people out. Did Jesus love the Pharisees? Absolutely. But when spoke to them He was more concerned about the Truth than their feelings. He was speaking the truth in love\u2014because He didn\u2019t want people dying in their sins. He was bold enough to say the hard things. Sometimes speaking the truth in love means speaking strongly in a means to wake people out of their slumber! [And right about now some are thinking, \u201cYes, but He was Jesus and you are not.\u201d I\u2019m sorry, but you can\u2019t have it both ways. You can\u2019t claim He was the master teacher and that we should follow His example with commands you are comfortable with and then claim, \u201cBut He was Jesus,\u201d on the examples you neglect to follow.] Jesus rebuked the Pharisees because He loved them and knew they were going to runoff a cliff\u2014and so He spoke the Truth strongly and forcefully.<\/p>\n\n\n

    Here is the elephant in the room that no one wants to talk about: In our congregations today we have people dressing immodestly, fornicating, gossiping, posting profanity on social media, treating their spouses badly, enjoying immoral media, forsaking the church, etc. AND YET, NO ONE POINTS IT OUT! (Sure we may quietly talk about it to others behind the back of the offender\u2026but we do not go to the offender.) We don\u2019t practice church discipline. We do not follow Matthew 18 about going to a brother who sins against us. After all, we don\u2019t want to be accused of not being kind. And sadly, we feel like our inaction is justified\u2014because we are upholding the 11th<\/sup> commandment. If we really love others, we will warn them about the consequences of sin!<\/p>\n\n\n

    Friends, Paul told Timothy to \u201cPreach the word; be instant in season, out of season; reprove, rebuke, exhort with all long suffering and doctrine\u201d (2 Timothy 4:2, KJV). Notice reprove and rebuke are what many would call negative words. In Galatians 5:11 Paul wrote, \u201cAnd I, brethren, if I still preach circumcision, why do I still suffer persecution? Then the offense of the cross has ceased.\u201d Instead of preaching circumcision, Paul focused his attention on preaching the Cross, which he indicated was an \u201coffense\u201d to those who still held to the law of circumcision. Preaching the cross means we confront the reality of sin\u2014and it is offensive to some. But we can\u2019t stop preaching it!<\/p>\n\n\n

    In commenting on the tasks of elders Paul wrote, \u201cThis testimony is true. Therefore rebuke them sharply, that may be found sound in the faith\u201d (Titus 1:13). He then goes on to say, \u201cSpeak these things, exhort, and rebuke with all authority. Let no one despise you\u201d (Titus 2:15). Should our elders stop rebuking sharply because it\u2019s not viewed as \u201cnice.\u201d If they rebuke sharply will they be viewed as not teaching the truth in love?<\/p>\n\n\n

    I know at this point some are going to say, \u201cWell, you didn\u2019t have the relationship to call that person out.\u201d Again, where in Scripture does it say we must first spend months forming a relationship? Would it be easier and better if there was a relationship already established? Absolutely! But if someone is running toward a cliff should I patiently wait until a relationship has been formed before I scream out a warning?<\/p>\n\n\n

    Maybe the reason we don\u2019t confront sin and evil is because we don\u2019t take it seriously enough or we are caught up in it ourselves. Paul admonished Christians to take sin very seriously. He wrote, \u201cYet I<\/em> certainly did<\/em> not mean<\/em> with the sexually immoral people of this world, or with the covetous, or extortioners, or idolaters, since then you would need to go out of the world.  But now I have written to you not to keep company with anyone named a brother, who is sexually immoral, or covetous, or an idolater, or a reviler, or a drunkard, or an extortioner\u2014not even to eat with such a person. For what have<\/em> I to do<\/em> with judging those also who are outside? Do you not judge those who are inside?\u201d (1 Corinthians 5:10-12).<\/p>\n\n\n

    Did you catch the last part? Paul indicates that Christians judge those who are \u201cinside\u201d the church. Which makes sense\u2014considering we are all using the Bible as the standard for right and wrong.<\/p>\n\n\n

    It is time we pray for courage and act. It is time we throw ourselves in front of those about to jump off the cliff. It is time we truly love those around us, even if it means we say things that might make us uncomfortable. It is time we pray and practice what God has commanded.<\/p>\n\n\n

    I fear the sin of silence in the church has encouraged the sin of silence outside the church. Christians often remain quiet on topics like same-sex marriage, transgenderism, abortion, and immorality. Instead, we just stand around holding the coats of those who are practicing such things\u2014all the while consenting with our silence.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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